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Choosing To Sing Praises To God In The Midst of Pain, Sufferring, and Tragedy

I Chose To Sing

While Scott was at Baylor Hospital, I was trying to balance helping our children maintain some sort of activity schedule beyond going to and from the hospital. One thing I decided to do was take them to the Saturn Road Church Vacation Bible School.  We also tried to attend Saturn Road Church on a few Sundays.  This was the church the family attended that we were staying with as well, so it seemed the polite thing to do; to attend the functions they invited us to.

I vividly remember one such function where my Spirit seemed to be splitting in two, and supernatural things were happening to it.

We had been invited to the church picnic.  It was a long drive north through an older part of town. It was older, but nonetheless contained its’ own beauty.  Though the houses were small, the yards were green, and the trees were established. 

The kids were anxious to see where we were going.  As we drew closer, they continued to ask, “Is this it?”.  I reassured them with, “We’re almost there!”.  I most likely talked aloud my directions as I was following them to keep them in the loop of what was coming next.

We turned right, and Avery announced she saw where we were supposed to go.  We turned right again into the parking lot.  It was a long grassy area where cars were already starting to make their own parking spaces.

Wow! This was going to be a large church picnic at this park.  It looked like most of the congregation was showing up. The congregation was over 1000 people.

We got out of the car and proceeded to locate the Cox family.  They had set up their picnic paraphernalia; chairs, cooler, and spread a cloth on the ground. The kids were excited to go and play at the nearby park.  Samuel, of course, was a handful the entire time. Not because he was doing anything wrong, but because of his age and curiosity and everything around him.  He was taking in his new exploring environment as well.

A large speaker system had been set up and announcements were happening.  Everyone started to sing as one as I rounded up the kids and had them sit on the blanket for their snack, and so I could participate with the overall event.

I don’t remember any other songs that were sung but one in particular. It so moved my Spirit and it was a truly defining moment in my personal decision of how I would respond to what looked and felt like an overwhelming tragedy to our whole family unit.

It’s interesting how certain songs are released and become mainstream at certain periods of our lives. Many songs we’ve heard but never really listened to become amplified in our times of transition or pain.  There were a multitude of songs that I tuned into during my travels to and from Baylor in those wee early hours of the morning.  This particular song, released five years prior, had not yet become significant to me, but this is the day that it became my heart’s anthem; an anthem for me and the girls.
As the congregation began to sing…

The splendor of a King, clothed in majesty
Let all the earth rejoice
All the earth rejoice

He wraps himself in Light, and darkness tries to hide
And trembles at His voice
Trembles at His voice

How great is our God, sing with me
How great is our God, and all will see
How great,

How great is our God.

I took notice of the words.

I listened to them.

I really listened to them.

My soul found peace in them.

But then, there was an internal conflict, a shaking, and a trembling.

Tears wanted to flow, but I wanted to hold them back. This was not the appropriate place for a meltdown. This was not the time for me to rebel against those words and cry out to God my anguish; not in the middle of all these people who had on their happy faces.

Isn’t it interesting how that split happens?  You must know what I am talking about. I am certain most have experienced it, though I’ve not heard one describe it verbally.  When you feel so sad, so hurt, and so broken and you stand in the midst of those around you who are appearing to be so happy, almost extremely the exact opposite of what you are feeling. There’s intensity in that moment; one of contrast and of deep emotion.  It’s almost as if the happier you see everyone else, the sadder and more isolated you want to become.
The singing continued…

Age to age He stands
And time is in His hands
Beginning and the end
Beginning and the end

The Godhead Three in One
Father Spirit Son
The Lion and the Lamb
The Lion and the Lamb


I didn’t know the verses, but somehow I knew the chorus. Maybe it was just catchy. Maybe I had sung it before. Nevertheless, the words were branding my heart with a new hope, and a new resolve to praise and honor and worship the Lord, and to not lose my faith and hope in Him, and His greatness, no matter what.
I chose to sing…

Name above all names
Worthy of our praise
My heart will sing
How great is our God

How great is our God, sing with me,
How great is our God, and all will see,
How great,

how great is our God!

As I sang, tears poured and my voice cracked. It’s good I was not on the microphone, but then again, if I had been, I believe as my voice quivered and my heart spoke, anyone who heard may have been moved with utter compassion and that song may have broken their innocence and hardness of heart as mine was being broken, and yet restored much stronger.  I chose to sing. It was liberating and strengthening in some sort of way. I did not just sing the words, my heart sang them with complete resolve to believe that which I was speaking. It was as if we were trampling on all the bad and evil that was trying to force it’s way upon us.  Our weapons of defense were singing a song proclaiming the greatness of our God, and I chose to believe “all will see” someday.  It did matter how I responded for the kingdom of God’s people. One baby step resulting in a giant leap.

How great is our God, sing with me,

How great is our God, and all will see,

How great,

How great is our God!


***
Days, or maybe it was weeks, later, I was taking our children to Plano to stay with a woman who had volunteered to let them spend the night with her family.  It is a very beautiful and meaningful memory for me.

Though concrete was all around us, coming out of the city on the highway, the weather was a perfect temperature, neither hot nor cold, and the earth was romancing me with the sun’s glow as it was beginning to set.

We had the radio on, and Chris Tomlin’s song, “How Great Is Our God” began to play.  Before it was all over, all of us, myself and our three small children (ages 7, 5, and 1 ½), were singing this song at the top of our lungs.  I had rolled the window down, and had my left arm and hand lifted up to Heaven as we drove 70mph and praised the Lord.  Hearing the children join in on this occasion had tears streaming down my face. The peace that passes all understanding, the joy unspeakable, the faith that wells up from a place that just seemed desperate and empty and hopeless… all present and transformational. 

I have since discovered that the Lord sings praises over us (Zephaniah 3:17), and that He inhabits the praise of His people.  I have also seen where it is our praise that is the catalyst to changing our circumstances (Psalm 67:5-6).  At the time of such great internal suffering and confusion (all weapons of the enemy Satan), I didn’t know the referenced Scriptures, but I can testify that I knew my soul, and the unity with our children’s souls, were all strengthened by lifting our voices to the Lord and proclaiming His greatness above all.

No matter how bad it hurts, or how much your mind wars that you are being a hypocrite, do it anyway.  Sing it anyway. At the top of your voice, with your windows down, and your hands lifted to heaven (well, keep at least one on the steering wheel). 

Tears or no tears. Just sing. Let your heart sing. 

Force your mouth to speak the praises of our Lord, your God, King above all kings (including Satan and his kingdom), Name above all names.

Let your heart sing, “How Great Is Our God”, and you too will experience how great He is – in that moment and in the ones to come.


"How Great Is Our God"
Chris Tomlin

The splendor of a King, clothed in majesty
Let all the earth rejoice
All the earth rejoice

He wraps himself in Light, and darkness tries to hide
And trembles at His voice
Trembles at His voice

How great is our God, sing with me
How great is our God, and all will see
How great, how great is our God

Age to age He stands
And time is in His hands
Beginning and the end
Beginning and the end

The Godhead Three in One
Father Spirit Son
The Lion and the Lamb
The Lion and the Lamb

Name above all names
Worthy of our praise
My heart will sing
How great is our God

How great is our God, sing with me
How great is our God, and all will see
How great, how great is our God
 
 
Psalm 42:5 Why are you cast down, O my soul? And why are you disquieted within me? Hope in God, for I shall yet praise Him for the help of His countenance.  NKJV

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